The day before I got my period I noticed a small brown stain in my pantyliner. I shrugged it off thinking it was probably just the light playing tricks on my eyes.
The next day I was talking to my friends about periods and I felt squirmish as my undies felt more wet than usual. After the end of the period I went to the bathroom thinking it was just extra discharge. Then I saw the brown streak and flipped. It was a rusty brown red color and it covered my entire crotch. I stared at it for like 5 minutes and my friend came in to check in on me. She found out laughed and handed me a pad.
My mom picked me up early that day and I stayed home for 5 days. Weirdly, my first period only lasted for like 2 days. So not too dramatic I guess. Great thing is that I don’t get cramps I just get moody and hungry around that time of the month.
So good luck to all those girls who just got it and are reading this for advice. I don’t enjoy my period but now my family treats me with a newfound respect so yea.
I got my period on the first day of high school (junior high for those in the US). This is both awesome, because in many ways both starting high school and getting your period signal a passageway to adulthood, and terrible because the factors had conspired against me to make it a hellish experience.
A few days before I was due to start high school my family was returning from a holiday when our car broke down about 5 hours away from home. This meant that my parents had to stay in the town but sent my sister and I home with an Aunty where we were to stay until my parents could come home.
Unfortunately the fact that my mother was stuck 5 hours away meant that a few of the ‘Brodie starts school’ errands that she was planning to run on our return couldn’t happen. These included: Click to continue reading… »
My first time was different than I imagined it. I had been waiting for it to begin. I thought I would feel it or something and I had been getting worried and anxious. When it came it was in the afternoon. I went to the toilet and my panties where covered in blood, so I went to my room and put a pad on a new set of pants, then carried on with the day. I have a heavy period and right now find tampons uncomfortable but I’m learning by myself because my mum and dad split up and i live with my dad so he knows nothing.
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What comes to mind when you hear the title, The Hormone Diva?
Is it a sassy expert filled with knowledge about hormones? If so, you couldn’t be more right! Robyn Srigley is just that. As a PMS coach and holistic nutritionist she is full of facts and humor to make learning about hormones simple and fun!
Like the diva that she is, you can find her sharing her expertise all throughout BPP – in our PeriodTalk Q &A Forum, our co-hosted webinar (Learn to Ditch Your PMS Cravings with 4 Simple Tricks) as well as the following articles:
As a regular contributor at Be Prepared. Period., we thought it about time we give Robyn the introduction she deserves.
When asked to share a little about herself and the work she is doing, Robyn says…
I am fiercely committed to guiding women to achieve vibrant health, pain-free periods and balanced moods so they can finally regain control of their hormones, cycles and LIFE. With experience working with amazing clients with similar worries and concerns and guiding them to achieve remarkable success, my mission and commitment is to replace your anxieties with JOY, to open possibility in your life and to have a positive impact on the next generation. Click to continue reading… »
It was summer 2002, right around my 11th birthday. I had gone to my dad’s house for a weekend visit and ended up getting my first period on the Friday night.
I asked my mom to come pick me up on the Saturday because my dad and his wife were just not prepared to be helpful. Periods, sexual health, etc. type topics (or any type topics, really!) have never been uncomfortable or unwelcome at my mom’s house, so when I got home, my stepdad greeted me with a loud “So I hear you’re a woman now!”, a huge smile, and a hug.
My mom generally didn’t use tampons, so her friend came by with a small box because we all planned on going swimming. They both sort of talked me through inserting it properly and comfortably from the other side of the bathroom door, and then we just went about our day! Apart from not being in the most ideal location at first, I know a lot of girls who have experienced worse! Not a bad first time!
Congratulations to all my fellow females who have entered womanhood! 😉 And good luck to those who will soon be embarking on this beautiful journey!
We at Be Prepared. Period. are super excited to announce the newest member of the team, Danielle, our new Community Outreach Intern!
Sharing a common goal of wanting to help others, she joins us to help spread the word about the resources we offer to women and girls. Resources to not only prepare girls and parents for puberty (and menarche), but to improve menstrual health among all women.
Danielle also recognizes the need for open menstrual communication as she shares her own first period story:
“As I reflect back on all the things that have happened over the school years I remember my first period.
I am extremely close with my mom, so talking about my period and what was going to happen before it actually happened was a major topic around 11-12 years old. It was nice to not be blind sided by my period. Of course at 12 years old getting ready for school, going to the bathroom and realizing I got my period was blind siding. But, the multiple conversations I had with my mom about it made the whole situation easier. I went into her room told her I got my period, she gave me a hug and cried and said her little girl was growing up. She handed me a pad, showed me how to use it. She then handed me a little brown bag to put into my purse with pads in it, told me to change it every few hours and I was on my way to school.
So I recently started my period. My mom works nights so it was just my dad and I. So when I went to the bathroom I saw something red and I was shocked but new what to do. I just got a pad because I was prepared. I just put it on my underwear and called my mom. During this time I was really shaken up. I called my mom and told her everything she said when she got home we would talk. So I told her I didn’t tell my dad. So my dad came in and saw that I was crying so I just immediately told him and he was understanding and hugged me and said if I need Advil or Motrin to just ask him. So I did have cramps and relaxed the next day.
Soo…I started my first period recently. I know many people hate their periods, but my mom helped me see it in a different way. Periods are a true blessing, even though uncomfortable. After all, you can’t have babies without them! And it shows that you are a true woman. It also shows that you are responsible enough to keep yourself clean during your period. It shows that you are mature. So maybe they are uncomfortable and scary, but remember that periods are a blessing!
I got my First Period in May of 2009 when I was 11, now I’m 15. I got up & got dressed, I remember I was wearing purple capris with sneakers & a white shirt, I also had my hair pulled back. I remember I had to pee so I went to the bathroom, when I looked at my underwear they had pink stuff on it. I remember getting a little freaked out even though my mom had told me about periods. I got out & was like, “mom we gotta get me pads.” She was like, “pads? for what?” Then i said, “mom i have my period,” she started to cry i mean CRY! I was like ” -.- really mom really?” lol I stayed home from school that whole week cuz I go for a WEEK on my period.
Then my dad came home from work and she told him. My mom had told him in their bedroom, she came out and told me he was a little sad. He got sad cuz I’m the only daughter he has, I have 3 brothers. He knew that now I got my period I was already becoming a woman. Like most people say than pretty soon I’ll graduate, then go to college, then have a family of my own. I mean I kinda like my period & I’m glad I got it at 11 cuz some girls get it at 15.
By Marie A.
So hi, I haven’t gotten my first period yet and I’m 12, but this is how I imagine it…
I’m at home just waking up at 7am like normal, and I go to the bathroom (as usual when I wake up) and I’m about to wipe myself, but I see some red ucky stuff on my panties. I already know about periods. So I start panicking because I think it is my FIRST PERIOD!!!!!! I get excited and get my panties off and quickly get to my room while my parents are asleep. I get new panties and a pantyliner. Put it on and get dressed for school.
When my mom wakes up I tell her and she says, “that’s brilliant,” and I stay home and after my dad goes to work at 8am me and my mom go to the shop and buy period supplies (like a lot, my mom overreacted) and she bought some sweets and drinks to celebrate my first period.
This is how I imagine my first period. Hope you liked it 🙂